Helping young people who face terminal cancer
By Daniel Kelly,
In the summer of 2014, my son Saagar, who was looking forward to his third year at university where he was reading Arabic and French, was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. In the autumn of the same year, while under the care of our GP, he tragically ended his own life.
"It is my belief that we are miles away from ‘parity of esteem’ between mental and physical health services." - Sangeeta Mahajan, Fellow
Looking back, there was a gulf between the medical and social aspects of his care. We can now identify many points in his journey where he could have received appropriate support but either it wasn’t offered or it failed to materialise. He fell through all these gaps.
Unfortunately, this is a recurring theme in many cases, and suicide stubbornly remains one of the leading causes of young deaths in the UK. The aim of my Fellowship was to gather lessons from the USA and Australia for bridging the gaps in the care of vulnerable individuals.
My recommendations for co-ordinating suicide prevention strategies between health and social care providers in the UK are:
During my Fellowship, I conducted a grand rounds lecture for the Department of Anaesthesia at State University New York to raise suicide awareness among residents. A few months later I received this e-mail from a colleague in the USA:
“One of our anaesthesia residents told me this week that she and her five female anaesthesia peers found your rounds last year life-changing for them. Shortly after you spoke, they all got together and after a glass or two of wine, bared their souls. All had been struggling with burnout and intermittent thoughts of suicide. She wanted me to tell you that your lecture, your humanism, your engagement, sparked this coming together of all six of them. They continue to watch out for each other and keep each other safe.”
It is my belief that we are miles away from ‘parity of esteem’ between mental and physical health services. The former remains much neglected. I hope my Fellow’s Report will inform the curricula for nursing, medical, paramedical, dental and law-enforcement students, and direct continued professional development requirements for all frontline staff. It should also create an impetus for strengthening connections between medical and voluntary sectors, as well as carers and those with lived experience, so that a strong and compassionate safety net is created for all vulnerable individuals.
I have shared the findings of my Fellowship report with the organisations where I have a leadership role. Together, we will continue to campaign with policy makers so that they take these findings seriously and increase funding for grassroots organisations, third sector bodies, mental health services and community groups, enabling them to create a protective infrastructure all over the country.
The views and opinions expressed by any Fellow are those of the Fellow and not of the Churchill Fellowship or its partners, which have no responsibility or liability for any part of them.
By Daniel Kelly,
By Martin Malcolm,
By Hayley Gorton,
Keeping safe: suicide prevention